If you don’t work on your Woman to give her the Orgasm, she will work her way out of you to achieve that Orgasm

Your emotions are high and you have just finished college, you have bright hopes, passion and a desire to make it work in life. Of the many long term goals you have, Marriage occupies the top priority.

After all, you are just in your mid-twenties and that would make you  the most ideal candidate. You look around hoping to cross paths with the lady of your dreams.

You had been seen this angel in the church choir, she sings good, you like the way she carries herself, her movies captivate you, a mere thought of her topography drown you wet, the wet dreams you see.

She is all over you and you are all over her, at least in the land of your dreams. You want her, you want her real bad.

The Proposal

A day comes, as things would have it, you spot her walking alone to the bus stop. She stops there, raising her phone to see the time, you seize this opportune offered, you muster courage to snail up to her, and then say the magic word, “hey! Are you waiting for bus?”  Foolishly outdated, yes, we too know that, but that’s how Hollywood delivers its screenplay. So don’t blame us. Let’s move on.

She raises her head, smiles at you. You fall at her feet, yearning for her to hold out the scepter. Your love story begins. Just like all the tales of great Romance, it will be a ride of dreams, chills and all fun.

You propose to her, you call on the local elders and the Marriage is conducted. The honeymoon starts. You sing the famous song, “Where do I begin”, she replies, “Begin, where you usually begin from”.

The Honeymoon

So you start off with a gentle kiss, and then increase the intensity, the tops are gone, your face is between her peaks, now the bottoms go off too. The heat is too much, you unload the payload into her welcoming chambers.

You two are linked now, the moaning increases, this causes you to raise the bar even further, now you hold her with really holding her with your hands. You know what is meant here, won’t you?.

The sweating increases, the Air con clocks 16, but it is still hot. The passion of you two aspiring to become ours two, the power, the vitality and the unison of sexes, a perfect formula for the lightening fireworks combo sufficient to last the night.

You hit the climax too early for the night, may be the wedding schedules took the toll on you, yet still, finally you are quenched, like all men, you are not even bothered if you had given her, her due share of the action, the climax, the come, the Orgasm. Well, for sure, like most men, none would make sense to you, but what you don’t know is that, all these get stored in her brain.

The file will remain there until the day it will be sent for.

We two, becomes Ours two

Soon, she gets pregnant, and a baby is born. You are moving towards your 30s, the money that you make is just not lasting for the month. So, she decides to work, and then family seems to stabilize.

But you are now noticing that she is spending good amount of money on Facial care, pedicure, manicure, spas, hair care, so much so, when she walks out, you really wonder if she was the Choir girl whom you fell for.

Recall of the “File”

Remember the time that we told you that a “File” is stored in her brain and it will be appear when called for. This is the time now. According to the Science of Kamsutra, the ancient science on the Art of Sex, A woman is capable of achieving 8 Peaks of sexual highs that the modern term refers to as Coming or Climax or Orgasm.

To suitably satisfy a woman, the man should be aware of these ‘Peaks” and address them. Failure to do so will invite unwanted repercussions from from the woman’s side.

Unaddressed Sexual urges and needs will often manifest in manners in which the woman will seek ways to address these needs by herself through ways that are subtly- Kamsutra.

Your inadequacies

Without your knowledge you had hinted that the economic condition of your family could improve if your wife supported you by seeking an employment.

It was like offering the right opportune on a platter. All she ought to do is seize it and launch herself into the world. Once she sets the ball in motion there is no turning back.

Self love is one release mechanism. Most woman turn to cosmetics for tension release. They use at least a dozen items in the form of face packs, eye liners, moisturizes, face lifts, face glows, face shines, anti wrinkles, the list goes on.

This is the time most men should observe and take notes. These sudden changes are the ques to watch and learn. If a man is smart, he will take due precaution to address these needs.

You missed the Bus

Now she receives more social texts, she has changed her mobile password, you have no access. She now gets dropped. Her return from work gets moved further into the mid night mark.

You question her for these delays, she always comes up with an alibi. You know she is slipping out of you, slowly but surely, and the saddest part is that you have no reason.

You take to beer drinking and watching ball games, you spend hours on the TV. Your belly begins grow, though you are merely in your 30s, you are now an acclaimed dad bob.

You are helpless, and a day dawns when you confront her with her behavioral changes. You suggest that she just stay home and take care of the baby.

She screams at you, “How dare you?”, “are you telling me that I am your maid”, “ I am an independent woman, I have equality, I have freedom, I can be what I choose to be”.

If you still not figured out by now, then the best thing for you to do would be to bite your tongue and remain silent. For anything you say now will now gravitate the situation against you. This is one battle you are never going to win, at least from here on. The odds are all stacked against you and you have no one to blame but your ignorance.

Relationship between Orgasm and Strong marriage.

They may say that Marriage is built on love but what they did not say is that Marriage is built on Sexual love for the beginning part and then it gravitates towards the Agape love.

In other words, if the Man does his part well enough then he can be assured of his wife truthful love to dawn and smile upon him for the rest of his life.

Every man should be aware of his woman’s requirements specially when it comes to coming. Women crave for this, and according to data, 75% of American women never achieve an Orgasm in their life time.

Most of them look for ways out. They try other relationships. These do more harm to them both emotionally as well as physically. But they are not aware of these dangers due to lack of insights and academic readings. But they are not to be blamed.

The case mentioned in this post is a real life incident. The moral for every man would be, keep your house in order and with that we mean, know what to do to please a woman when it comes to her sexual desires and requirements.

It is said, 80% of the happiness is caused by a mere 20% of the actions that go towards achieving them. This is very true when it comes to sex. As for the woman, her 80% joy depends on achieving the Orgasm-According to Kamsutra.

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